CHANGE YOUR HABITS
March 11, 2010 on 1:03 am | In career coaching, life coaching | No CommentsBiting your nails, arriving late to appointments, and overeating are obvious bad habits. However, there are some habits, which are not bad outright, but which over time might have negative consequences. If you have a habit of seeing the same friends, that is not bad, but it likely means your network is limited and like-minded. If you take the same route to work each day, you may miss a better view or a more efficient way to go. Even good tendencies can lead to bad habits, if you allow yourself to fall into a rut and be blinded to new possibilities.
Because ruts are unconscious, you need to make a conscious effort to break them. Look at your career over time, and see if any patterns emerge. Is there a recurring reason for your job dissatisfaction? Are you stuck with projects you don’t like? These patterns exist because you are doing something to perpetuate them. Your bad habit might be not speaking up, waiting to be assigned rather than volunteering, or simply going from job to job without a clear sense of overall career.
Whatever you identify as the problem, think about ways to change this. If your problem is bad projects, find ways to transition to better ones. This means delegating the bad projects or at least minimizing your time spent on these, identifying the better projects, and ensuring that you get these better projects. How do you get the plum assignments? Find out how they’re assigned. Then, move out of your comfort zone to get them.
Your comfort zone is a bad habit if it keeps you from what you want. There is nothing wrong with being comfortable, if it also means satisfied and content. We all know people who are never satisfied, and that’s not a better alternative. However, if your comfort zone keeps you settling for less than your ideal, then comfort is a habit worth changing.
CAREER SPRING CLEANING
March 8, 2010 on 1:24 am | In career coaching, life coaching | No CommentsIt’s spring, and time for those projects for home and garden. Don’t forget to add some projects for your career spring cleaning:
Assess the first quarter. How is your job different from last year? Are you working on more challenges or taking on more responsibilities? Is the work still interesting? Are you happy with your progress to date? This simple check-in can expose some issues you need to work on for the rest of the year.
Spring clean your database. Input those address changes from your returned holiday cards in 2004. Scan your phone list, and make a list of those people you’ve been meaning to call. Make an appointment in your calendar to call one person a week till the list is done.
Organize your work files. Have you been clipping articles that you’ve meant to read? If they’re older than three months, the news is outdated and should be purged. Do you have old emails saved for just-in-case? If you haven’t referred to them in the last month, you probably won’t need them. But, save any electronic receipts you may need for tax purposes.
Stock up on career supplies. Update your resume. Get a permanent email address outside of work (e.g., through your college), and check that it is properly forwarded if you already have one. Have business cards packed in every bag you typically carry, so that you are prepared even for unexpected networking opportunities.
Find some inspiration. Have lunch with a colleague from a different group or at a different level. Scan your industry’s trade journals. Take a general career development class, attend an industry conference, or learn a new skill.
Spring is about growth and new beginnings. Put some spring back into your career.
LIVE UNCONDITIONALLY
March 4, 2010 on 1:23 am | In life coaching | No CommentsWe all know people who live conditionally: I will play more golf but when I retire; I will travel but when I get a raise; I will buy some nice clothes but when I lose weight. There is nothing wrong with rewarding yourself for achieving something special, whether it’s retirement or weight loss. But there is also something powerful about treating yourself now. Constant but-when’s lead to the blahs. It is important to supplement the sticks with the carrots.
Make a list of small ways to treat yourself (a round of golf, an hour of uninterrupted reading, a weekday matinee movie). Pick the item that most sparks your interest right now.
Do the legwork. Where can I play golf? How much does it cost? Can I rent the clubs? When can I go in the next two weeks?
Be flexible. Is the course too far away? Consider a driving range. Is the club too intimidating? Book a lesson.
Do it and then do it again and then do it again. Experience your reward several times in the near term. But fit it into your life as it is right now. Don’t quit your job to get the time, don’t mortgage the house to get the money. Find a way to fit it into your existing life.
You need to repeat the reward several times to get used to treating yourself well, just because. This is living unconditionally. You need to practice living unconditionally because it sends the message that you are worth it right now and right as you are. In this way it is as powerful as loving unconditionally. When you love someone unconditionally, they feel that and they benefit strongly. When you live unconditionally, you benefit from an inspired life, a confident life, and freedom from the blahs.
BUILD A FOUNDATION OUTSIDE OF YOUR JOB
March 1, 2010 on 1:21 am | In career coaching, life coaching | No CommentsThe best time to look for a job, seek a career risk, ask for anything is when you don’t need anything. Desperation repels. Confidence attracts. All careers have ups and downs and situations out of your direct control. If you nurture your life outside of your career, you have the confidence to weather these ups and downs. Just like the company with a cash cushion to weather challenging markets, so you must have a reserve outside of your career to prop you up when things are down.
Build a financial reserve. If you live paycheck to paycheck, you are desperate for your current job. You are not in a position to challenge career-stalling assignments, work overload, or poor compensation. If you have savings, little debt, and liquid money to invest, you are able to take a risk, challenge the status quo, and pursue a dream.
Nurture your relationships. You are not a different person when you leave your home and enter your workspace. A fulfilled personal life contributes stability, encouragement and passion to your professional life. Solid relationships free you to dedicate time and energy to your career.
Mind your health. Career growth requires a healthy body to work hard and a healthy mind to focus. You need enough sleep and a good diet and exercise routine to ward off daily ills. You also need extended periods of relaxation (i.e., vacation) to compensate for extended periods of work (i.e., crunch time).
When you have solid finances, fulfilled relationships, and good health, your career has a platform upon which to grow and thrive. While it takes time to build a foundation outside of your job, it takes less time than reactively putting out fires as they arise. A solid foundation enables you to manage your career from a position of strength.
MAKING IT EASY, BUT NOT TAKING IT EASY
February 18, 2010 on 1:17 am | In life coaching | No CommentsAn actor needs to enter his bedroom in a nonchalant way, see something that the audience cannot see, and completely lose his temper. There are two different ways the actor can achieve this: he can focus on the feelings of nonchalance and anger; or he can focus on visualizing something that would transform him from nonchalant to angry. Different strategies, same result. One of my former acting teachers recommended choosing the easier strategy for you.
So it is with goals, which often can be reached by various strategies. If your goal is to improve your eating, this could mean breakfast daily, one more fruit and veggie than usual, or fewer sweets. If your goal is to save more money, this could mean setting aside a set amount each month, cutting back on a specific item and saving that cost, or taking extra work to earn the additional savings. If you want to focus on your career, you could read more industry material, expand your network, or learn a new skill. Set yourself up for success by choosing the easiest way to reach your goal. Once that change is made, you can introduce additional changes to make additional progress to that same goal, or you can redirect efforts to a different goal. Either way, you’ll have one relatively painless win under your belt.
Disrupting your original routine is hard enough. Choosing the most appealing change is an easier way to stay committed to your goal. Making it easy for yourself, however, is not the same as taking it easy. You are still working towards your goal. You are just making it fun at the same time. Don’t equate drudgery with commitment to your goal. By choosing the right strategy, you can make it easy for yourself and still achieve your goal.
PLAYING IT SAFE WITH YOUR JOB SEARCH
February 15, 2010 on 1:15 am | In career coaching, life coaching | No CommentsThe job search process is highly subjective. Multiple, often conflicting, opinions abound. If you ask ten recruiters the same question, you may hear up to ten different answers. For example, I do not care about getting thank you letters from interviewees. Some of my recruiting colleagues close candidates if they don’t send a thank you letter. I barely read cover letters. Some place more importance on the cover letter than on the resume. With so much dissension among recruiters themselves, how do you know what protocol to follow? Be conservative.
Since you don’t know what recruiter is reviewing your resume or giving your next interview, submit all resumes with a cover letter and follow up all interviews with a thank you letter. The recruiters that don’t care will just discard these things. The recruiters that do care will now not have a reason to discard you.
This follows with all the basic components of a job search. Understand what is required, and err on the side of caution. Have all marketing materials ready (e.g., business card, resume, cover letter, thank you letter, letters of reference, list of references), even though you might not need all of these all the time. Dress should be professional and neat. Wear suits in conservative colors (e.g., blue, brown or black) and cuts (i.e., not too short or tight). Good manners always count. Be on time. Be friendly to everyone, including administrative staff. Have a positive attitude. You will not know the personality preferences of the people you meet, but you want to be remembered in a positive light.
WHY YOU SHOULDN’T CARE WHAT RECRUITERS THINK
February 11, 2010 on 1:14 am | In career coaching, life coaching | 2 CommentsSo many candidates want an insider’s view into what recruiters think, perhaps thinking that this knowledge will make them better candidates. However, with conflicting views among many recruiters, tailoring your approach to any one recruiter may conflict with another recruiter. So, aside from sheer curiosity, you really shouldn’t care what recruiters think, and instead focus on honing your unique approach.
When you’re unique, you leave a lasting impression
You cannot control what the recruiter thinks, so use your job search to learn more about yourself and develop your own style. Sometimes candidates do not have the background I need, so I don’t hire them. But the ones with confidence and a sense of self are the ones I remember (and call in the future) when a suitable opportunity does arise.
When you stick to your game plan, you control your destiny
If you put your real self forward, whatever may happen, you know you gave it your all. If your real self doesn’t get hired, the opportunity was probably not the best fit, and you have left the door open for an opportunity that better matches what you really want.
When it’s two out with runners in scoring position, you go down with your best pitch
During critical moments in baseball games, where the fastball pitcher is facing a fastball hitter, does the pitcher attempt some other pitch to throw the hitter off? More often than not, good pitchers challenge with their best pitch. You cannot tailor your search strategy to the desires of every recruiter out there, so pick the one that suits you, and go for it.
CAREER INVESTMENTS
February 8, 2010 on 1:12 am | In career coaching, life coaching | No CommentsInvesting is not just an activity for your finances. A successful career requires investments of time, money and energy in several key areas:
TRAINING. A company pours revenues back into research and development. So should you invest in your training and development. Weak or unknown skills in your current profession are obvious candidates for training. However, building on strengths and honing areas of natural interest even if unrelated to your current job are also important. Studying something that sparks your curiosity or inspires you benefits your career by increasing your creativity, broadening your imagination, and improving your overall attitude.
NETWORKING. A company dedicates resources to marketing. Networking is your marketing function. Relationships with colleagues and other industry professionals enhance your reputation and help market you. Increasing your industry knowledge also makes you more marketable. However, networking outside of your immediate job and industry is also critical. Knowing different people broadens your perspective. It also helps you avoid being the equivalent of a company dependent on one large customer.
BRANDING. A company has an advertising budget, a logo, letterhead, and other well-thought ways of branding to its public. You are branded by how you present yourself – your attitude, work ethic, personality, and appearance. If you live a healthy lifestyle, commit to small luxuries (e.g., regular massages, subscription to your favorite theater or sports team), and take care of yourself, you make a statement that you’re worth all that care and attention. You will project that in your brand.
As with a financial portfolio, a rich career requires consistent attention over the long-term. Prioritizing regular amounts of your time, money and energy to career-building activities yields dividends in career security, challenge, and fun.
WHY MONEY MATTERS TO YOUR CAREER
February 4, 2010 on 1:11 am | In career coaching, life coaching | No CommentsMonetary compensation is the most obvious intersection of money and career. However, there are other equally important, though often overlooked issues where money and career intersects:
Money impacts your employer and therefore money should matter to you. Profit-making companies care about their bottom line, so you need to focus on how your job adds to that bottom line. How much are you generating in revenues? How much are you saving in costs? If you don’t know how your job adds or saves money, then you better find out because the ability to add measurable value will make you a valuable (i.e., retained) employee. Non-profit and government employees also can make money contributions (e.g., fundraising, grants, cost savings).
Your personal bottom line impacts your job prospects. Confidence attracts, and desperation repels. If you live paycheck-to-paycheck, then you’re desperate for that job. You probably are not in a position to take on high risk (but high reward) projects. If you have no savings and suffer a career setback (e.g., layoff), you will be tempted (or even forced) to take whatever comes along, rather than what’s best for your career. On the other hand, if you are financially stable, you can work for the joy of it and bring more joy to your work. This attracts even more opportunity.
How you handle money matters even in non-financial jobs. More employers are running background checks on prospective employees and sometimes that includes a credit check. Employers reason that how a prospect manages his/her personal money reflects judgment, discipline, and general knowledge. Whether or not you agree, know that this is happening. Therefore, if you run up on debt, are consistently late with payments, default on loans, or otherwise endanger your credit score, then you are hurting your career prospects.
Money matters to your career in ways unconnected to compensation. Therefore, take time and energy to get your money in order. A solid understanding of business, stable personal finances, and good credit will help your career, not just your money.
PRICING YOUR PRODUCT
February 1, 2010 on 1:10 am | In career coaching, life coaching | No CommentsIn addition to knowing your product, you also need to price it. The salary of your current job is one indication of your market price. It is always good to know the going rate for your function, level/ title, and industry. However, salary reflects what your skills and experience are worth in the specific context of your industry. You also need to consider your worth if you switch industries (e.g., the teacher who moves into corporate training), switch functions (e.g., the English teacher who becomes a writer) or strike out on your own (e.g., the teacher who starts a tutoring company).
It is critical to understand how your product would be priced if you did strike out on your own. For the teacher, a move into training is only one example of another potential product offering. Online education, community/ adult education classes, tutoring, writing training manuals, even coaching are other possibilities. Think even broader. A teacher is comfortable leading groups. Giving tours and public speaking training are also possibilities.
Now that you have a sense of the range of products you could offer, you can check the market price for all of these. How much do corporate trainers earn? What’s the rate for online class teachers, community workshop leaders, tutors? Pick a product offering that really appeals to you and build it out even further. If you were to build a touring company, what kind of tours would you offer? What would be your business costs? How would you market it? Do you need staff? What resources do you need? How much would you charge?
Thinking like an entrepreneur does not mean being an entrepreneur. You may decide to stay in your same job, company and industry. In that case, pricing your product (i.e., a salary check) ensures you are equitably paid. However, the exercise of pricing your product is an effective way to understand exactly what your products are. It is a reminder that you can survive outside of your current role. It gives you ideas outside of the specific function and industry you are in. It opens up new possibilities.
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